Family:

It's unimaginable how much influence your family can have on your life, thoughts, and behavior. This has been the case for me. I am the oldest daughter among three sisters, and despite growing up in the same family, we are both all different and similar in many ways. I have absorbed the teachings I received and applied them in my own way, both the positive and not-so-positive aspects. In this blog entry, I will first discuss the role each member of my family has played in teaching me life lessons; Secondly, I will explore why family is important; lastly, I will reflect on my own path and way of being.

The people in my family have taught me various things in different ways. For example, my grandmother taught me about behavior, topics of interest, moral values, and critical thinking. My mom has taught me resilience and determination; she has overcome numerous challenges in her life, demonstrating that anything is possible, as long as you have the will. My dad has taught me about hard work, dedication to family, and some tips for business. Both my dad and mom are resourceful individuals who have shared countless stories and lessons with me. Each contribution to my life has shaped the person I am today.

Why is family important? Regardless of whether the teachings we receive are beneficial or detrimental, they leave a lasting impact on our lives, like scar tissue on our skin and in our minds. To be honest, I have received both positive and toxic teachings that have stayed with me in some way. Although I am not to blame for certain traumas, I take responsibility for how they affect my life. We cannot change our past, but we have the power to shape our present and build a better future. How can we do that? Based on my experiences, the key is to acknowledge our wounds and old teachings and use them as tools to avoid repeating the same mistakes as our parents or relatives.

As I mentioned, I am the one who chooses my own destiny. Throughout my journey of growth and personal development, I have learned to think critically and form my own opinions. While my teachings have been valuable, they sometimes clash with my desires. In those moments, I question whether I should have followed my parents' teachings. However, I believe that I should not simply replicate what my parents have taught me. We are independent beings, and my own path requires a unique push to become what I truly want to be.

In summary, in life, you will encounter numerous examples of how you should be. Your parents and family may play a significant role in your early years, providing both helpful guidance and less beneficial advice. However, as you reach the end of the journey, you become free to choose your own path and decide what truly matters to you.